We have been home a lot over the past week due to sickness. Ugh... it's been exhausting, but I think we are finally getting better. Yesterday, Kyra and I spent some time talking and trying to learn to communicate together. (We'll see how long this lasts with an almost 4 year old.) Kyra is trying to find and know her limits. Mom has been trying to do this for a while, but now she is becoming even more of her own person and doing it herself.
Kyra needed to go to the bathroom and insisted on going on her own. It has been on and off, if she feels like she needs/wants help. I said, "Ok, go." She went, came back, and I asked the mom question, "Did you wash your hands?" Kyra has always been able to make me laugh with her responses. She stood there for a minute and didn't say anything. So again I ask, "Kyra, did you wash your hands?" I could see the wheels turning but wasn't sure what was going to come out. Finally, Kyra asks, "If I say no, does that mean I have to?" I, trying not to laugh, say "Yes, Go wash your hands!" She then turns away with a smirk and does it.
Later in the evening, I'm putting laundry away and the girls are playing in their room. I can hear commotion but it’s not too much and sounds harmless. After a few minutes Maya comes telling me something and points to their room. (It’s nice having one of them keeping me informed on what's going on.) I redirect myself to the girls room. As soon as I get to the door Kyra says, "I won't jump off that anymore." I asked, "Jump off what?" Kyra~"the dresser." I was floored. She had taken all the pillows and blankets off their bed, piled them up, and was jumping off their 4 foot dresser. We sat down and had a talk. Luckily no one got hurt.
Today, I took the girls out for some fresh air. We decided to have a leftover pizza picnic party. Presley got to a point and said she was done. I asked if she wanted anymore and she said no. So I had her give her remaining half breadstick and crust of pizza to Elvis. She took the breadstick first. Then came back and got the crust. I watched mortified and laughing as Presley took the crust over to Elvis. She threw the crust toward Elvis which he went after. And then Presley picked up her breadstick off the ground, after Elvis had investigated it, and started eating it as fast as she could. Mortified of the germs that where taking place and laughing at the scene. I wish I had a video camera on her in that moment.
Oh the stories of my day to day life. It makes me smile. As frustrated as I can get, in the end I'm smiling and laughing at these great beautiful little girls. I love you love you girls!!
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